June 28, 2009

my sister’s keeper: review (or rant, rather)

***Spoiler alert: if you have not seen this movie, and don’t want to know anything about it until after you’ve seen it, stop reading now.***

okay, my friend christian writes these movie reviews, and i think they are pretty good, and a pretty good idea at that. so for one post (maybe more in the future… it depends on how this one turns out), i will copy his idea and tell you (or rant, rather) about the new movie, my sister’s keeper.

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let me begin by saying that i read this book last summer, and completely loved it. it was sad, insightful, shocking, and beautiful all at the same time. so imagine how excited i was when i heard they were going to make the movie. i made david promise to take me as soon as it came out. so we went this past saturday. i walked into the movie completely excited. and then i walked out totally mad at hollywood. here’s why:

they completely changed the ending. not just a little detail here and there, but the ENTIRE ending. i am still trying to figure out how anyone in hollywood thought that the ending of this book wasn’t good enough? yes, there are sentimental movies that make you cry. this one did. and it still would have if the original ending would have played out, but it would have blindsided you at the same time.

so here’s what happened in a nut shell (for those who want to know): the story is about an 11 year old girl named anna who was a “designer baby”– specifically genetically designed to be a 100% match for her older sister, kate, who has a rare form of leukemia. so the minute anna was born, they took her cord blood. a few years later, bone marrow. you get the drift. so one day she walks into a lawyer’s office and tells him she wants to be “medically emancipated” from her parents and is suing them for the rights to her own body. once you think about it, it makes sense. (kate’s kidneys are failing, therefore they are already planning for anna to give her one of her kidneys).

so flashback after flashback, you see the story of this family. mostly true to the book. of course you can’t capture every detail, but movie goers get the picture. they even give you one of the twists at the ending, where we find out that kate made anna promise to get medically emancipated because kate was ready to go. therefore, the entire time the movie is setting you up for kate to die. and then that’s where everything capsized for me.

in the book, anna wins her court case. but before she is able to tell whether or not she would donate her kidney, she gets in a car wreck and is left without any brain function. since her lawyer had power of attorney over anna, he agrees to the operation. even though the doctors said that kate was too weak to survive the operation, they go ahead with it and kate lives. shocking, i know. but still, it blindsided me and left me with that uncomfortable but beautiful feeling you get after seeing movies like seven pounds or vanilla sky. you want it to end differently and everyone to live happily ever after, but at the same time you still love the uncomfortable ending.

in the movie, kate just died. she said all of her goodbyes (which i have to give props to cameron diaz in her goodbye scene… i held it together the entire movie until then), and then you hear anna narrating, saying that kate just stopped breathing that night and died. i wanted to jump up and scream “WHAT???” i’ve never been so disappointed in a movie’s ending, not being so true to the book. i mean, they totally killed another character and kept the one that was supposed to die alive. i really don’t get it.

…and as i step onto my soapbox: i thought that hollywood actually looked for the shock value in movies. the book ending would have done it, but i guess they just wanted to go with the memior type movie. it’s all fine and dandy if it were just a movie, but the way i look at it, this was someone’s piece of art that they just erased and drew a stick figure right smack dab in the middle of the canvas to totally change the piece. and here’s what the author, jodi picoult, has to say:

TO ALL MY FABULOUS FANS WHO’VE SEEN THE MOVIE:

Yes, I know the ending is different. Yes, I know some of you are very upset. I didn’t change it. The author has no control over the movie, and it was hard for me to accept too. However, there’s a great deal in the movie that I think is great, and I enjoyed watching it – and I hope you did too. Please don’t email me asking me why I changed the ending, or “let” Hollywood do that – it wasn’t something I had any control over. Tell Warner Brothers what YOU think ». —Jodi Picoult

so there you have it. my review (and rant) about the movie. all in all, if you haven’t read the book, it was a good movie. very touching, very beautiful. it’s gonna take me awhile to get used to the entirely different ending though. (and yes, i actually did tell warner brothers what i thought...)

June 15, 2009

ready for travel…

he loves it.

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June 14, 2009

first flight…

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so this thursday levi and i are getting on a plane to fly to kentucky for my cousin’s wedding. initially we were going to try the whole 8 hours in the car thing, but after a trip to and from charleston/edisto this past week, we decided it might not be a bad idea to at least look at how much it may cost to fly. and wouldn’t ya know it, it wasn’t that bad. around $200 round trip, and levi just sits in my lap so he’s free (and happy, might i add). he’s usually fine in his carseat… for up to an hour and a half. then he’s hot, restless, and honestly just ready to be out.

so to all you mothers who have ever traveled with an infant (if any actually read this blog), i’m wondering what the essentials are for this flight? what do i do about formula (with the whole 3 oz. rule)… do i need to take his birth certificate for i.d…. things like that… and any other pointers would be great…

June 7, 2009

the baby bjorn…

i have a sling. i like it. it does get a little uncomfortable after awhile though. i found this out while in charleston this weekend, visiting my awesome friend nan (hey nan!). we had a picnic on the battery, went to spoleto, the farmer’s market, and then to the market. it was hot. and after a while my shoulder was hurting, and i starting thinking, maybe it’s worth it to invest in a baby bjorn. 

i always thought they were a little nerdy looking,but the more i look at them and think about how much easier it would be to tote around a chub-a-lub this way, it’s looking more and more enticing.

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any thoughts?

June 3, 2009

omega 3 fats

i watched dr. oz on oprah yesterday and learned something new:

Ask Dr. Oz – Why Do Women Have Memory Loss During/After Pregnancy?:

Dr. Oz called this memory loss “mommy brain” because a developing baby steals its mother’s Omega-3 fats. The female brain also shrinks during pregnancy but rewires quickly and becomes more powerful after pregnancy. To improve short term memory, Dr. Oz suggests women add more Omega-3 fats and get plenty of sleep to help the growth hormones.

so last night after learning this, i ate salmon with a side of spinach, both extremely high in omega 3 fats. take that, you crazy brain that forgets everything these days!

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which brings me to this morning, i have some appointments with some clients to take pictures for their ads in the magazine. since i have been super forgetful recently, i made sure that i had everything that levi could possibly need before heading out the door to drop him off at amanda’s while i took pictures. extra diapers – check. formula – check. bib – check. paci – check. extra paci (just in case) – check. i was on a roll. oh yeh, and baby levi – check.

so i take him to amanda’s, tell her when he ate last, when he’ll be tired, etc. etc., then leave to go to my appointments. driving down the highway, i get a phone call from my brother-in-law:

“hey lauren, what are you doing?”

“i’m out taking….. pictures.” and it was then that i realized it: i had left the camera at home. my whole reason for being out and i had forgotten the main ingredient.

so tonight i had some more salmon and spinach.

come back, lauren’s brain, come back.

May 29, 2009

so i think i CAN’T dance…

i absolutely love so you think you can dance on fox. i look forward to it every season. my dad came over and watched it with me tonight, and i proceeded to tell him that the reason i liked it so much is because i love watching people do things that i don’t think i would ever be talented enough (or have enough guts) to do. so my list goes on…

this is the same reason why i love hearing my husband sing and play music, i love miami ink, and i love the amazing race. i secretly want to be a singer/musician, a tatoo artist, a world racer… oh yeh, and a dancer.

well, i guess it’s not a secret anymore.

(so just for fun, here’s one of my favorites from so you think you can dance….)

May 24, 2009

favorite baby items…

so a couple months ago i went to a baby shower for my friend joanna, and somehow during the shower my friend courtney got tickled that i was giving baby advice. i don’t really remember what i was talking about, but i’m sure it was how much i love some sort of baby item. so, just to make your day, courtney, i’ve compiled a list of my favorite baby items as a new mom (and a few of levi’s favorites as well):

1- gas drops: granted this is probably on all must-have lists, it wasn’t until i actually saw the miraculous power of gas drops that i became a big fan. the stuff literally works in seconds. i don’t go anywhere without them. runner-up: gripe water. all natural, and we use it mostly for getting rid of hiccups. again, crazy how soon the hiccups stop.

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2- the “bear” rug: okay, so this adorable and super soft little area rug is not really a bear… it’s a dog. and even though everyone knows it’s a dog, we still call it the bear rug. levi loves his bear rug. he lays on it and looks out the window at least once a day. my brother-in-law’s girlfriend, morgan, gave it to him, and i have so many people ask me where she got it. she got it from a store in Florence, SC called Toy Shop.

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3- trumpette socks: okay so i just think these are plain adorable… and they are the few socks that actually stay on levi’s feet ALL DAY LONG. my friend katie gave these to him, and i seriously try to pick out an outfit everyday that matches one of these colors so he can wear these socks. i love them… i think it’s the shoelaces.

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4- formula dispenser: i wish i would have thought of this… it has three different sections where you put premeasured powdered formula. then when it’s time to eat, just flip open the spout and pour into your bottle. it’s almost too easy!

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5- swaddle me blanket: granted, my mom and mother-in-law both think it looks like a straight jacket, but if levi does not have this on when he goes to sleep, he doesn’t sleep. he ends up waking himself up by jerking his arms and proceeds to get mad and cry about it. therefore, the swaddle me blanket is a must-have for me.

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6- baby mel diaper bag: i wanted a diaper bag that was big enough for everything i needed for levi, but would also look like a bag i would actually carry for my purse. so i found this. i love it.

babymel-amanda7- gumdrop pacifier: these are the pacis they gave us in the hospital. i’ve tried other pacis… levi doesn’t like them as much as he likes this kind. it’s similar to the soothie, but it doesn’t take up room on his entire face the was that soothies do. so far i haven’t seen them in any stores though. i’ve heard you can get them online or get them at the hospital… that’s all.

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hmmm… that’s all i can think of for now. but hey, i learn about something new every day!

May 23, 2009

the newborn session… at 10 weeks old.

these are a few of my favorites from laurengossettphotography

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May 11, 2009

mother’s day 2009

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nana, levi, and mommy ;-)

May 4, 2009

makeitandloveit

i stumbled upon this blog when trying to figure out how to make this cute little wipes case for levi with his guitar fabric:

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she has great tutorials and cute ideas! check it out…